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Dichotomy of Control

6 books in the library reach for this idea - each in its own way. When independent authors converge on one concept, it usually deserves attention.

  • Discourses

    Epictetus · Rated 9 · Essential

    How this book uses it: Up to you: beliefs, desires, actions. Not up to you: body, property, reputation, outcomes. Obsess over the first; accept the second.

  • How to Think Like a Roman Emperor

    Donald J. Robertson · Rated 8.2 · Highly recommended

    How this book uses it: Split concerns into three categories: total control (your reactions), no control (weather, other people's opinions), partial control (outcomes you influence but don't determine). Act accordingly.

  • Meditations

    Marcus Aurelius · Rated 9.2 · Essential

    How this book uses it: Some things are up to you (beliefs, actions, desires). Everything else isn't. Wisdom is knowing the difference.

  • The Daily Stoic

    Ryan Holiday · Rated 8.2 · Highly recommended

    How this book uses it: Your opinions, choices, desires, aversions - these are yours. Your body, property, reputation, position - not yours. Focus on the former, accept the latter.

  • The Enchiridion

    Epictetus · Rated 9.2 · Essential

    How this book uses it: The foundation - some things are up to you (judgments, reactions), some aren't (everything else). Focus only on the first category.

  • Tools of Titans

    Tim Ferriss · Rated 6.4 · Worth skimming

    How this book uses it: Stoic principle cited constantly. Focus on what you can control; release attachment to what you can't.